Friday, August 28, 2009

The aftermath

I am at my wits end with my family. They have me so mad I could spit nails.

After dumbass decided to not return my child I retaliated and hung signs on his door calling him a liar, coward and a tattletale since his 51 year old behind runs and tells my mother everything I do and say.

Dumbass called my Mother and had her so upset Monday telling her that he was never going to do anything for Holli and was not going to buy her a birthday gift, but then he called her back and decided he was his daughter a birthday present (mind you he has never remembered her birthday before and I had to remind him) so now my mother says he is trying to be a good Father. My Mother told him that I must be acting like this because I am menopausal and need hormones. It has nothing to do with the fact that he lied to me about helping pay for summer child care and not returning my child to me on August 16, 2009. That was just a misunderstanding...I guess I am such a horrible mother I forgot my child would not be coming home for 10 damn days

Now to add insult to injury..... Dumbass has decided that since I have upset him so much for hanging the fliers on his door he cannot talk to me again so now when he needs to tell me something he will call my Mom. My Mom will call me and I can give my reply back to her and then she will tell dumbass my response. My Mother has agreed to this. I told her she had to be kidding. Also since he is so upset with me he is going to mail my Mother The Diva's birthday present(the both live in the same city) and then my Mother will mail the gift to Holli or bring it to her. I told my mother that she was enabling that fool to act childish and immature. I talked with my sister and she said that Mom was just looking out for Holli so that is why she wanted to make sure she got a birthday gift. She is not going to be angry with dumbass like I am. Are they serious? He spends no time with her, he does not attend her school functions, he stood her up for the Father/Daughter dance, he does not visit when she sick, when her school closed because of the swine flu scare he would not use a day of his personal time to watch his child causing me to have to use my days, he works for the school district and I have to pay extra for child care because he want watch her during Thanksgiving, Christmas or Spring Break, but it's important that she gets another Bratz doll and a $10 McDonald's gift certificate. I told them both I was throwing the crap in the trash.

So now according to my family I am the bad guy being unreasonable and dumbass should be nominated for fucking Father of the year because he bought his child a pair of sneakers and is going to get her a birthday present. I am thru with all of them.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Today's my birthday nana nana

Happy 42nd Birthday to me. The day started off a little stressed, but now it's great. I am loved. I have great friends. I got 2 surprise birthday wishes from the opposite sex so right now I am on cloud 9.

Monday, August 24, 2009

I have a 1st grader

I can't believe my baby girl is now in the first grade. Last night she had to have her nails painted and this morning she had to put on lip gloss. We had a little disagreement about her hairstyle, but after I fixed it correctly all was well. :) This morning and she was a little clingy until she saw Ms. Dearman and then forgot about me.

Monday, August 17, 2009

Do not look good in orange jumpsuits (repeat 20 times)

Guess what asswipe decided to do this time. I am going to just copy and paste the email I sent to a friend. She had asked me if I needed help hiding a body.


You know Gail call and asked if Holli could go to the Selmon family reuion with her and Reid. She picked up Holli on Thursday and they were supposed to be back on Sunday around lunch time. I told Gail to just call me when they got back and I would meet her somewhere.

Sunday around 3 pm I had not heard from anyone so I am calling Gail and leaving messages. Not panic, but concerned. I leave another message at 5:30 and decide that I will give an hour before I start blowing up phones. At 6:15 Gail sends me a text and says Holli is with her Grandma. No big deal it made sense for her to come back with them.

So I call Ms. Selmon on her cell and ask her are they back. She says they have been back I say Oh well I will be at your house in about an hour to pick up Holli.

Ms. Selmon goes What? Bubba said Holli was staying here for the week (this is his week to pay for summer child care) didn?t he tell you. I tell her Alvin has not talked to me in 2 weeks and No I did not know or agree to have Holli stay at your house for the week.

I get to Ms. Selmon's house and Holli runs down the stairs upset and goes Mommy, Did you come to take me home. I go yes go get your stuff. She goes Dimaya said I wasn?t going home I had to stay the night here. I ask Holli if her Dad had told her that she was going to her Granny?s house. Holli goes no, we were driving and we stopped and then my Dad told me to get in the car with my Aunt Kersten. I thought they were bringing me back to The Colony, but they brought me to my Granny?s house and then you did not come to pick me up and then Dimaya said I had to stay here. Mommy I want to go home."

I guess at that point my head started spinning and I was foaming at the mouth because Kersten was standing in front of me with her hands up saying we didn?t know, we didn?t know.

So they get help get Holli?s stuff together and Kersten goes well Bubba did buy her some shoes see. I am keeping my mouth close because I am furious and need to calm down so I just go uh huh okay

I texted Gail and told her that she called ME to pick up Holli and when she left with my child it was my understanding that she would be bringing my child back to ME and if there were any changes to that plan I trusted her to keep ME informed. I have not heard back from her.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

but I will miss you

Called The Diva to see how she was doing and if she was okay. Holli got on the phone and told me she was having fun and she missed me, but she was coming home on Saturday instead of Friday. little heffa .. I was in labor with you for 31 hours lol

Monday, August 3, 2009

And more drama

I swear The Diva's Dad is an ass. He makes an agreement to either watch his daughter or pay for her summer camp fee and every time his week comes up he has excuse after excuse that he thinks I am going to fall for. I stand my ground and he says I am acting like an ass which is a compliment because it means I made him accountable for his words. The best parts out of all of this drama is that Holli is getting to spend so much time with family. This week she is with her paternal grandmother and the 2nd part is that butt wipe is actually having to either pay for child care with everything else you have going on or figure out a plan B. It's like welcome to my world..